Monday, November 17, 2008

Dubai x's Two

Our little man turned two this past weekend and we went to Dubai to celebrate Artem's birthday. I love Dubai, it's completely different than Abu Dhabi and I feel like a rock star when we go there. We went to Dubai back in October for my birthday and stayed at Le Meridien on the beach and really enjoyed the resort. Our low-end-cheap-poor-people room wasn't available at the time, so they upgraded us to a huge corner room with gorgeous views.

This time our low-end-cheap-poor-people room was ready and there would be no upgrades to the rock star room, but nonetheless, we still had a great view of the ocean, and the UAE jet ski races were taking place this weekend and it gave us a great place to watch the races.

I don't know why it is my fate in life to be surrounded by a series of "unfortunate events". The last time we went to Dubai, I wanted a massage for my birthday present. Randy booked the massage for me and watched Artem while I was gone. It was an 85 minute "Heavenly Massage" and I was told to get there 30 minutes prior so I could fill out health paperwork and enjoy the amenities of the spa. I don't know about you, but when I get a massage, I hate it when my legs aren't shaved and I can feel the stubble bending backwards as they work my legs. I splurged that morning and used a brand new razor so I could relax and not worry about my stubble. Razor stubble was going to be the least of my worries. I got there early, completed my paperwork and was then taken to the women's dressing area. The sweet girl told me, in very broken English, to get undressed and use the spa, sauna, jacuzzi, etc while I wait. She handed me a key to a locker and turned and left. The spa was VERY nice, straight from "High Roller" magazine and was impeccably clean but clearly lacking any privacy for changing. I looked all around but couldn't find anywhere private to change. I was trying to size up the locker and see if it was possible for me to fit inside of it to change when two older British ladies came in and immediately begin to disrobe right.in.front.of.me! I was trying to act cool and pretend like it was no big deal to see two 50+ year old British women buck naked right in front of me, but that song from Sesame Street kept going through my head, "one of these kids is not like the other, one of these kids just doesn't belong..." I finally retreated to the toilet and changed into my robe and came out holding my head in a, "I-just-had-to-pee-otherwise-I-would-have-changed-right-here-in-front-of-you-ladies" kind of look and made my way across the waiting area and into the jacuzzi area. As I got ready to sit down I reached behind me to gather my over sized robe and felt a void in the tush area and immediately got the sick realization that my robe was tucked into the back of my undies and I had just walked in front of the waiting patrons including 50+ year old British ladies that were nude in front of me two minutes prior. Nicely done Susan. Without giving you too many details regarding the rest of my massage, suffice it to say that they do things a little differently here in the middle east and no one told me that my petite masseuse would hand me what I initially thought was waded up dental floss but to my dismay ended up being a disposable thong that I had to wear so she could have full access to the area that I had just flashed to a room full of ladies five minutes prior. This painfully modest girl has decided she likes to the toned down massages of the US rather than the "all access pass" massages here in UAE, thank you very much.

So I tell you about that misfortunate event because even though it was traumatic, I still had a fantastic weekend in Dubai and couldn't wait to return for Artem's birthday this weekend. Upon arriving in Dubai this weekend I wanted to wash my face when we arrived as we were getting ready to go out to eat, and as I was washing my face, I reached for the first towel I could find. As I was using the towel, I thought to myself, "wow, this is really soft for a hotel towel" and started to look it over for the manufacturer's tag and noticed big letters embossed on the towel, T E D I B, "hmm that's strange, Le Meridien doesn't have a T or a B in it" and it finally hits me, that T E D I B is bidet spelled backwards and I just used the towel intended to dry one's nether regions on my face. No wonder it was so soft. Again, nicely done Susan.

But despite drying my face with the bidet towel, we had a nice weekend planned in Dubai to celebrate Artem's birthday. It was our intention all along to take Artem to Ski Dubai at the Emirates Mall but found out a few days before the trip that children under three years old are not allowed to enter. BUMMER! So we decided to take Artem to the aquarium that opened two weeks ago at the brand new Dubai Mall. Apparently half the population of Dubai decided to go that night too as it was so crowded we could barely walk around. The line to the aquarium snaked around like the entrance to Space Mountain and we knew there was no way Artem would be able to wait in that long line so after watching the fish and sharks from the viewing area, we decided to call it a night and head back to the resort. We ended up eating ice cream by the pool and looking for the moon, two of Artem's favorite things to do.




We did get to spend some time at the pool over the weekend and Artem gave his new floaties a try. In the past I've used floaties with Artem but he ends up face first in the water because he can't keep his bottom in the water. This time was much better and not only did he keep his tush down, but he figured out how to right himself when he got turned upside down and was able to kick enough to propel him to the side of the pool. We were so proud of him and finally had to pull him out for a break as he was severely puckered and his lips were starting to quiver from being cold.

When we were at the Emirates Mall on Thursday night, Randy found the funniest hats and he couldn't resist buying them. Do you think the good folks at Strasburg Clothing had this accessory in mind when designing the birthday jumpsuit??




Despite the obstacles we faced this weekend, we had another good weekend in Dubai and we think our birthday boy enjoyed himself too. Happy birthday little buddy!




Sunday, November 9, 2008

Anniversary Surprise

This Tuesday Randy and I will be celebrating 8 years of marriage and every year I worry and fuss over what gift to give him. I was determined to surprise him this year with something really cool which was not easy to do while living in a foreign country and not really knowing my way around. I scored major brownie points with this year's gift that I gave Randy on Friday...a skydive experience ! I know, nothing says, "thank you for 8 wonderful years" like hurling your man out of an airplane, but this one utilizes a wind tunnel instead of an airplane and is safer for the first timer.

The wind tunnel:


Randy did awesome and the instructor could not believe that is was really Randy's first time with skydiving. The bottom of the skydive tunnel was made of thick glass and Artem and I were able to sit and watch Randy and take pictures. His first session was 2 minutes long and the instructor helped him get the hang of things and then he had a two minute wait while another man took his turn. After that man was finished the instructor quickly briefed Randy on new things to try and Randy got back in for the rest of his session and did everything the instructor showed him. He was a pro and the instructor actually left the tunnel and stood at the entrance because Randy was doing so well.

Artem gave Randy some "have fun" kisses for his skydive. This picture melts my heart:


Randy skydiving:


Artem was fascinated with skydiving and was VERY upset that he could not get in the wind tunnel, you have to be at least 3 years old, but was very satisfied when Randy gave Artem his used ear plugs as a consolation prize. Not only was he happy to wear them, but he wore them for the rest of the night and on into dinner. Lucky mommy and daddy!! If only everything in life could be smoothed over with some used ear plugs...
Daddy's used ear plugs...SWEET!
Having a little snack with his used ear plugs:
Going to dinner with his used ear plugs:
STILL wearing the used ear plugs, see how dark it is outside?

Thursday, November 6, 2008

9-1-1 Transcripts Released

Operator: 9-1-1 what is your emergency?

Frazzled Mom: I'd like to report that my son has been stolen...

Operator: Stolen? Are you saying someone took your child?

Frazzled Mom: Yes ma'am, that's what I'm saying, someone stole my son Artem.

Operator: Can you describe the child?

Frazzled Mom: He's two years old next week, 33 inches tall, 30+ pounds, brown hair, hazel/green eyes, adorable fat cheeks and dimples on his elbows. He smiles non-stop, charms the pants off of everyone around him, and answers to Artem, Doodlebug, Doodle-licious...

Operator: (Squad car #7715 we have a 3-11 in progress, please respond immediately) Ma'am, we are going to get someone out to your house right away, I've already dispatched the police.

Frazzled Mom: Will their car have a baby seat inside of it?

Operator: Excuse me? Did you want to know if there was a baby seat in the patrol car?

Frazzled Mom: Yes, ma'am. I need to make sure there is a baby seat in the patrol car so they can take this child that is in my house from me and make sure he gets to his rightful parents.

Operator: Ma'am, I'm confused...

Frazzled Mom: Yes, me too, whoever broke into our house and stole our sweet natured, adorable chunky butt of a little boy, left behind a screaming, hitting, "NO" yelling, tantrum-throwing little monster in his place and I need him out of here...

Operator: (cancel car #7715, you can return to your post) Uh ma'am, no one stole your child, the monster in front of you IS your child, he's just turning two and is going at it with guns a blazing!!

Frazzled Mom: Well in that case can you still send the patrol car out for me? I think I'm going to need to take a drive for awhile!

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Trick or Treat...almost

I think one of the greatest joys of parenting is being able to dress your child up in an adorable, although uncomfortable, Halloween costume and parade them around the neighborhood for everyone to oohh and aahh over. The compliments on how cute your kid is somewhat makes up for the 16 trips to the naughty spot they will make the next day as you try to bring them down from their sugar high. Since I didn't give birth to Artem I don't have any of those, "I labored 3 weeks for you" kind of stories to threaten him with but I did fight US Immigration tooth and nail for his paperwork so that has to count for something and I was ready to use my trump card to get him into his heavy, somewhat constrictive, but oh so cute dinosaur Halloween costume.

I had been warned to bring a costume from the states as there wouldn't be many available here in UAE and I schlepped that thing across the Atlantic waiting for the big day that Artem could wear the over-priced, over-stuffed costume for an hour and collect a bounty of candy for his mother to eat, pardon me, for Artem to eat. Since arriving in Abu Dhabi the end of September, I've been promised over and over again that the weather is going to start getting "really" nice. I'm not sure what your definition of "really" nice is, but to me, 100+ degrees with 90% humidity in the middle of October is not "really" nice and I started having second thoughts about putting Artem in his costume. The week before Halloween I decided not to do trick or treating for Artem since it would be so hot and there was absolutely no sign of Halloween anywhere in this town. No pumpkins, no ghosts, no bats, nothing to indicate that Halloween was coming. I realize we aren't in the states but there is a HUGE expat population here in UAE and I figured there would at least be a smidgen of Halloween for them.

Halloween morning we were on our way to the beach, yes the beach and yes on Oct 31st, when we got a call that someone from Randy's work was going to have a Halloween party and we should bring Artem so he could trick or treat. Before the party we put Artem in his costume and he looked A.D.O.R.A.B.L.E. but was not having anything to do with it. After only a few seconds of wearing it, he told us, "all done" and that was that. So I dressed him in his skeleton tee shirt that his aunt Amy bought him and we left for the party, but I brought the costume along just in case. Once Artem saw the other kids at the party getting dressed up he started taking an interest in what they were doing. Kids started coming to the door and yelling "trick or treat" and Artem loved watching them. I asked him if he wanted to get his bag and go trick or treating and he got very excited and said, "yes". I asked if he wanted to wear his dinosaur costume and he quickly told me, "NO" and shook his head. Okay 1 out of 2 isn't bad, so I grabbed his spider bag and out we went.
Ready to Trick or Treat:

Artem says: TREAT!


Artem didn't really understand the concept at first. He would say "treat" when he got to the door but didn't think much of the candy in his bag, (Artem isn't allowed to eat candy of any kind so it didn't mean anything to him) and was more interested in going into the houses that we went to. After about the 4th house, he stopped trying to go inside and started getting excited about all the stuff they were putting in his bag and he started to strut his stuff around the compound looking for the next house to go to. Everyone still ohhed and ahhed over him but part of me was a little sad that he wouldn't wear his costume, especially since it was the ONLY dinosaur we saw that night; ballerinas, Spider Man, and witches seem to be the hot costume here in Abu Dhabi. But despite my son being sans costume, we still had a good time trick or treating and he enjoyed his first taste of mini M&M's, while I enjoyed his Twix bars.

Artem's very first house:


Artem can't quite figure out why that lady just put a bunch of stuff in his bag:

After trick or treating, the party got into full swing and Artem came to life. I think I've mentioned before that Artem loves music and loves to dance. Our son WAS the party and people ended up standing around him on the "dance floor" watching him shake his groove thing and cheering him on. A few ladies tried to dance with him, but he said, "no" and came running for me. That's my boy! By 9:00 p.m. we called it a night and took our little dancing machine home to be put to bed so mama could enjoy the fruits of her son's labor...Halloween chocolate!

Our dancing machine:
Doing a somersault on the dance floor, I told you he has moves!
Happy Halloween!