Thursday, December 16, 2010

The Move

So I announce that we are moving to Dubai but I haven't provided you any updates yet; blame it on the busy holiday season. 

We have yet to nail down a move date.  Randy's job is very busy right now and his schedule seems to change daily but we know the move will occur either mid February or the beginning of March.  This week I have started collecting quotes from different moving companies so we can decide how much we want to ship to Dubai and how much we'll need to store here in the states.  I think I heard an audible gasp from the United Van Lines rep when I opened our storage shed today and asked him if it would be a problem to store our industrial cement mixer. 

We are shipping Bella to UAE and I spoke with a company today called Air Animal.  They have been shipping pets all around the world for 33 years and the rep I spoke with today was very helpful and understood my apprehension over shipping Bella.  I was so nervous about the process and found myself literally tongue tied with nerves when talking to her about the trip.  She explained that Bella will be picked up from our house and will fly Lufthansa from Houston to Frankfort Germany, have a mandatory rest stop and then fly from Frankfort to Dubai.  She said Lufthansa is VERY particular about shipping pets and have been known many times to remove animals from the flight because the pilot found something not quite right with the animal compartment and would not allow an animal to travel unless the compartment was perfect.  She also said the Frankfort airport animal holding area is THE state of the art animal holding facility and the Germans are so pet friendly that animals actually have rights while they are there on layovers.  She said Bella will be fed and watered and walked every hour while on her layover but her layover cannot exceed four hours.  She also said the air is refreshed every 15 minutes in the animal holding area and the company rep can sleep well at night knowing the animals are being cared for by the people in Frankfurt. 

After she explained all of this I felt so much better.  She said, "I literally just heard you exhale.  Are you feeling better about it?"  It was funny because I didn't notice I had exhaled but after she said it I realized that's exactly what I did.  She told me, "I understand how you feel about Bella.  I don't have babies, I have a Basset Hound."  The grand total for shipping Bella will be about $3,500 and since I discovered Artem's "Happy Birthday Jesus" slice of cake on our master bedroom floor tonight (plucked from our kitchen table while we were out tonight) someone better be minding her doggie P's and Q's between now and the time I write that check!

The other big news for our move is our lease on the flat in Abu Dhabi.  In UAE, you pay your rent with one check at the beginning of your lease.  We pay approximately $60,000 US dollars for our lease and if you need to leave early, you lose the remainder of your money.  Since renewing our lease in July, we would stand to lose a major chunk of change if we left in February for Dubai.  Randy and I decided it couldn't hurt to ask if we could be let out early and Randy had his speech ready to go.  He went to the leasing agent and explained that we adopted a second child and really needed to move from our high rise apartment to a house with a yard in Dubai and would appreciate it if we could get out of lease early and then braced himself for the fight.  But instead of a struggle, the leasing agent simply said, "Okay".  Wow!  Nothing ever goes that easily in UAE so we consider ourselves very lucky they are letting us out early.  We have to give them 60 days notice which Randy is handling right now and before we turn in the keys we need to show them that we've cleared the utilities.  That's not too bad. 

Randy will be home tomorrow for the holidays and when he returns to UAE in January, he'll start the house hunt in Dubai.  We already know the neighborhood we want to move to, it's called Arabian Ranches, not that it means anything to you, but when I talk about it in the future you'll know what I'm talking about.  Clear as mud?  Arabian Ranches is a gated master planned community that is built around a golf course, is surrounded by miles of hiking and biking trails, has a main community center, and has it's own school, grocery store and fast food restaurants.  Arabian Ranches is made up of individual smaller neighborhoods that each contain their own playgrounds, pool, and community center.  The neighborhoods all have sidewalks and many of the streets are cul-de-sacs which would be great for the boys to play out front and ride their bikes.  The villas (fancy word for house) in the sections we are looking at range from 3,800 sq feet to 4,500 sq feet and each have their own private backyard which will be good for the boys and Bella; that is if she stops swiping "Happy Birthday Jesus" cake from the table while we are out.  But the greatest thing about Arabian Ranches is our dear friends from our military days are now living there and we can't wait to explore Dubai with them and their two boys! 
Andrik's certificate of citizenship finally arrived so we can proceed with getting his US passport and this coming Tuesday we'll head south to Austin for Andrik's recognition of foreign adoption court hearing which will officially declare him a Texan and will allow us to get a Texas birth certificate for him.  Those two things make travelling to UAE (and other destinations) much easier versus doing it on his Russian passport.  It will be nice to finally be in UAE and be settled and slow down for a change!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Funniest Picture

Want to see the funniest picture?  Any guesses on what is making his hair stand up on end?


My sister and her children visited our house for Thanksgiving this year and they used our air mattress to sleep on at night.  One morning I was using the pump to deflate the air mattress and Andrik was sitting in the path of the air being blown out of the pump.  It blew his hair literally, as you can see, straight up.  He laughed and laughed but what was even funnier than his hair standing straight up, was he couldn't figure out where the air was coming from to get out of the way so he just sat there being blasted by the air and laughing while the rest of us laughed at him.
  

Thursday, December 9, 2010

He Did It!

I'm so happy to report that the adorable boy in the plaid shirt did not do a repeat of last year's embarrassing moment during his Pre-K Christmas show.  ***

He sang his little heart out, did all of his dance moves, and kept a sweet smile on his face throughout the show.  His little brother yelling, "Ar-em!!!" throughout the entire show didn't even through off his performance mojo; the sign of a true professional.  


***I may or may not have made Artem raise his right hand prior to the show and take an oath promising me that he would keep his fingers a respectable distance away from his nose. 

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Temptation

So let me get this straight...you just put up seven and a half feet of shiny, glittery, sparkly, reach-out-and-touch-me temptation and I'm not allowed to touch ANY of it?? 

Friday, December 3, 2010

How About An Update?

It's been awhile since I posted on our adoption blog about my struggles to attach and bond with Andrik, but when I go back and read that post, it seems so long ago and thankfully I haven't seen that side to Andrik, or myself for that matter, since October 25th; yes I literally know the date that Andrik flipped a switch and started to become the child we know today. 

He is such a happy child now, no more days spent crying from the time he wakes until he goes to bed.  Truly I think he was in mourning.  I think he was grieving the loss of his caregivers that he had spent so much time with since he was a baby.  He's still not a morning person like his brother who wakes up happy and chatty, but I'm not a morning person either so I get Andrik and his slow-to-wake morning persona.  At least now he's only crabby for a couple minutes after waking rather than all day long.

He's an okay eater, not great, but definitely not the worst I've seen either.  He's still pretty messy when he eats.  I refer to his breakfast as "wearable art" since he ends up with food all over his face, hair, ears, eyelids, forehead, etc and that's with me sitting next to him supervising.  He's only put on two pounds since August and grew just under two inches but at 26 pounds and 33 1/4 inches tall he's only in the 18th % for weight and the 9th % for height. 

All of his blood work came back great when his pediatrician ran all the tests last month.  He didn't show any signs of malnutrition but he had 11 vaccinations to catch up on.  I decided to have them spaced out rather than get them all at once and the doctor wants to see him one more time before we leave for UAE to see how his growth chart is progressing but otherwise, he is the picture of good health.  The only health issue we are dealing with is the bald spot on top of his head.  Since he's been home his hair has become very soft and shiny but he has absolutely no hair growth on his bald spot which is about an inch long.  My hair dresser and his doctor have both said it looks like alopecia and Andrik has an appointment with a dermatologist to get to the root of the problem.  (hardy har har)  January 31st is the soonest we can get in to see the dermatologist so it looks like he'll be working that comb-over hair style for a little while longer. 


A few other updates:
* Andrik is now a super napper!  The boy who used to nap for 10 minutes now regularly takes 2-3 hour naps and no longer has his full scale atomic meltdowns in the afternoons. 

* Bella LOVES Andrik and seeks him out throughout the day versus hiding from Artem.  Artem is really good with Bella so I don't know why Bella tries to avoid him but she constantly comes to Andrik and puts her head in his lap for him to pet her.  Andrik scratches her behind her ears and Bella makes this moaning-snorting sound of pleasure while Andrik scratches her.  It's hilarious.

* Andrik is really funny and likes making us laugh.  Right now his favorite thing to do is hide behind the shower curtain and yell "boo".  But what the boy hasn't figured out yet, is he's supposed to jump out and yell "boo" not just stand behind it yelling "boo".  His timing might be off but he keeps us in stitches all the time and I can't help but wonder if his caregivers in the orphanage ever got to see that side of him.

* Andrik's speech is coming along great!  He's literally adding a new word every day or two.  And he constantly puts two and three word sentences together.  Last night we were reading a story with a spider that you put your finger inside and wiggle around through the middle of the book.  At the very end, I tucked the spider inside the book and Andrik put his hands in the air and asked, "air it go?" (Where it go?)  He chatters up a storm and has so much to say, and half of the time I don't know what he's saying, but his articulation is getting better and better each week. 

* Andrik is super ticklish especially his feet and every night in the bathtub he squeals with laughter just from me washing his feet.  And just pretending like you are going to tickle him without even touching him puts him in screaming fits on the floor. 


But right now I think my favorite thing about Andrik is he's a cuddler, a big time cuddler and he will sit for time on end in my lap on the rocking chair letting me rub his back or scratch the back of his head.  He strokes my arm or leg while we are rocking and will turn and give me unsolicited kisses while we rock together.  He really is a very sweet and loving child.  And back in October I truly had no idea I would see this side of Andrik and grow to love him as much as I do now.