Friday, September 14, 2012

For My Dad


Three children and life can keep you busy and unable to find the time and motivation to blog but when your father asks you specifically to update your blog, you don't have any choice but to do just that.  So in an attempt to make my dad happy, I give you the last two months in a nutshell...

I am no longer homeschooling our boys.  It comes with mixed emotions for me but we feel it's the best thing for our boys right now, especially Artem.  He was terribly lonely since there isn't a good homeschool group here in Dubai and there aren't any children on our street that he can play with minus the two Iraqi children next door that are quite a bit older than him and speak very little English.  Here in Dubai, expat children can only attend private schools and we have a choice between American schools (there are only a few and are on the expensive side) and British curriculum schools which are much less expensive and have a lot more to chose from.  In the end I decided to enroll the boys in a private American International IB school and I think it will be a good fit for them.  Artem can make some friends (he already tells us all about his new friend from France) and Andrik can get away from his big brother's rule for 5 hours a day and be his own boss instead of being bossed around by a domineering older brother.  Both of the boys have very nice American teachers, small class sizes, and full-time teaching assistants in their classroom.  Artem goes to Art, P.E., Music, and Computers twice a week and is required to attend daily Arabic lessons but since it's an American school they learn American spelling, American money,  and celebrate traditional holidays like Halloween and Valentine's day.   



I asked the boys questions the day before school started and took pictures of them with their answers.  Notice Andrik's answer when I asked him what he wants to be when he grows up.  





While the boys are at school, Atalie spends her time taking my clean kitchen towels down and wiping the floors with them.  I know this is karma paying me back for when I was Atalie's age and took my clean cloth diapers out of the stacker and immersed them all in the toilet.  


Before the boys headed back to school, we spent a month in the states visiting friends and family in Florida and Arizona.  Last year when we went home, we came back to Dubai with a little souvenir, and this year we celebrated that special girl's first birthday.  



Atalie's cake was a true work of art.  If you live in the Orlando area and need a cake made that is as delicious as it is beautiful, contact Anthony at Michael Anthony Cakes.  

 Our little ladybug at one year old.


And when we weren't filling our tummies with cake and ice cream, we headed to the happiest place on Earth...Disney World!  It was one of those days when nothing seemed to go right; I brought my very heavy Nikon camera with me not realizing the battery was dead, I forgot to charge my cell phone so I couldn't use my fancy Disney parks app, we took the train to Epcot instead of WDW causing us to be late for our lunch reservations, it rained on us, etc.  But it didn't seem to dampen our spirits that day.  We truly had one of the most fun days that we've had in a long time and I can't count how many times I cried watching the sheer joy on our boys' faces when they saw their beloved characters.  






Wet, sweaty, tired, but oh-so-happy cousins at Disney World.


And because we don't have enough heat here in Dubai, we flew to Phoenix, Arizona to spend a week with my family and friends and enjoy the wonderful excessive heat warnings they were having in Phoenix.  But we still found plenty to do indoors and it was the first time my parents were able to meet Andrik and Atalie in person.  

To say my dad loves trains is like describing the Grand Canyon as a good size hole in the ground.  The man really, really LOVES trains and as a result I love trains, and now my boys love trains.  You get the picture.  Anyway, my father has a spot in their laundry room where he can play trains and he showed the boys how to run them.  



My father even got out my train from when I was Atalie's age.  I used to spend hours riding this train.  I have a picture of me on it, but it's in our storage unit in the states and unfortunately I can't access it.  But I was about this age when I started riding this train and it's so sweet to see my daughter on it all these years (ahem) later.  


We took the boy's bowling for the first time while we were in Arizona and they had a blast!  Bowling is not like it used to be and is high tech nowadays.  When we entered the boys' names and ages into the computer, it knew when it was their turn and automatically put the bumpers up and down for their turn. Considering how badly I bowled, I wished I could have used those bumpers.

Artem making silly faces, showing us he's number one in bowling...

But the real winner was Andrik!  He beat both me, my father and his brother.  

He's such a humble winner.


We returned to Florida for a few more days before heading back to Dubai and the boys got to do something they've been waiting to do for a long time...shoot the air riffle with Pops.  For several months before our trip to the states the boys have been obsessed with guns.  They don't have guns for toys, we don't watch shows that involve guns, but all they want to do is play guns and talk about shooting stuff.  We've explained the reasons Pops has his guns for hunting, told them all about the dangers of guns, how they aren't toys, etc but all they want to do is blow something up.  So we decided that it's time for them to learn about gun safety and learn to do it right.   My father in law hunts for all their meat and processes it himself.  Each night at dinner when we were eating venison we would tell the boys what they were eating and reminded them again about the purpose of a gun which made the boys exclaim they they were going to shoot a squirrel...until they found out that they have to eat what they kill and that would involve them skinning the squirrel and "cleaning it's guts out".  After our explanation, the boys were happy to just shoot cardboard targets.  

After a very thorough gun safety lesson, they finally got to use the air riffle.  Poor Andrik couldn't even get his little arms around the thing, but despite his small size he turned out to be pretty good.  

Artem was the one that really surprised us!  Despite the fact that this boy runs a mile a minute, doesn't slow down to take a breath when he's talking, and is like a very hyper Energizer Bunny, he was very calm and deliberate with his aim and ended up shooting over 80% of his targets.



It was a really good trip to the states and like Andrik, we gave it an energetic thumbs up!





Monday, April 16, 2012

4th Gotcha Day



We celebrated Artem's 4th Gotcha day last week. Some days I can't believe it's been four years and other days it feels like I don't know time before he came into our lives. But this once chubby faced, pudgy-legged, teetering-to-walk 17 month old has turned into one awesome son and big brother right before our eyes! Happy Gotcha little buddy! I sure am glad DHL lost our dossier and delayed our trip to Moscow until you were ready to meet us!!

I found Artem in Atalie's play den reading books to her and keeping her company while I was cleaning the bathrooms. (I know, such a glamorous life)


Andrik can't pump himself on the swings yet so Artem holds onto Andrik's swing and does the pumping for him so they can both swing together.


He makes me proud to be his mother!

Friday, February 17, 2012

Free Falling

If there is one great thing that has come from our move to Dubai, it has to be the awesome adventures our family has had while living here and this past Sunday was no exception. Randy is friends with many locals here in UAE and one of them happens to be best friends with Sheikh Hamdan, who is the Crown Prince of Dubai and son of the Ruler of Dubai and Sheikh Hamdan just so happens to have his own private indoor sky diving wind tunnel. Randy has jumped, flown, floated, had fun in Sheikh Hamdan's wind tunnel in the past and this time he was told to bring the boys up so they could experience the wind tunnel.

Artem has seen Randy in a wind tunnel in the past and has always said he wanted to do it, but we didn't know if he'd really go through with it once he actually had the chance. Andrik isn't afraid of anything but at three years old, he doesn't quite have the coordination to indoor sky dive. He is the boy that falls and busts his lip playing the Wii jousting game, so we were a bit worried about something as wild as indoor sky diving.

The boys loved getting dressed in the cool jump suits. Who knew they made jump suits for three year olds?

Sheikh Hamdan was very kind and welcoming to us. He made us feel right at home and offered us all the food and drinks we wanted. He got down on his knees to talk to our boys, kissed them on their cheeks, rubbed their heads, and high-fived them before and after their jump. He was so good to our boys and it's hard to believe that a young man that has billions of dollars at his disposal can be so unassuming and down-to-earth.

Artem went first and the boy literally shocked everyone in the room, including Sheikh Hamdan, who could not believe it was his first jump. He was a natural!


We didn't know how Andrik would react, but the little bugger didn't even hesitate, he jumped right in there. At first he wanted to kick his legs like he was swimming, but Carlos, the jump instructor who has two small children of his own, was great with him and got him to relax by letting him jump up and down on the bottom wire fencing and get more comfortable with all the wind before getting him flying again. By the end of Andrik's flying time, Carlos was holding him only by the tips of his toes and Andrik was able to keep his position. Carlos asked both boys if they wanted to go high into the tunnel. Artem absolutely refused, but Andrik could not get high enough, he loved it! Three years old and the boy braves a wind tunnel.


Watching the boys in the wind tunnel literally gave me tears in my eyes to think about the humble beginnings these boys came from. Once they were neglected children removed from filthy living conditions to rocking themselves to sleep in a lonely Russian orphanage and now indoor sky diving with the Crown Prince of Dubai, these little guys have come a long way. I am so proud of my boys!

At the end of the evening after thanking everyone at the wind tunnel, the boys went up to Sheikh Hamdan to thank him one last time and Sheikh Hamdan told the boys to have a good night and told them he had to go and Artem asked him, "Do you have to go to bed now?" I love it!

And not to be out done by her brothers, Atalie got to work the next day practicing her moves for the day she can go in the wind tunnel.


Saturday, January 28, 2012

Why Yes It Has Been Four Months Since I Have Blogged!

And the winner for biggest blog slacker goes to...ME!


I know it's been a long time since I've updated the blog. Sigh. Life is crazy for this home schooling mom to three children. Our house is always noisy and always busy, and sometimes I wonder how did we go from one child to three children in such a short time? There are days I ask myself, "Do we really have three children age five and under? How did we get so blessed?" Life as a family of five is crazy in a good way and I can see now where our family wasn't complete until Atalie came along. And now I feel like we are really and truly done expanding our family. (See Randy? I'm actually putting that in writing!!) Somedays I think he doesn't believe me when I say we are done. I think he's afraid of letting me go back to the states without him, for fear of me bringing home another baby. But we are good. We are were we are supposed to be with these three awesome children!

So without typing out a major dissertation on what we have been up to for the past four months suffice it to say...

Artem's soccer practices have kept us busy...

Homeschool field trips have kept us on the go...

Both boys made Santa's "nice" list this year (there were times I was sweating that one)...

Atalie enjoyed her first Christmas...

And smiled her way through the holidays...


These two continued to completely and totally love each other...

And this little butterball gave us a run for our money when she dropped weight due to some HORRIBLE reflux that took her from the 50% to the 5% in weight until we got the reflux under control and got her plumped up again...



And she learned on her own to "cheese" for the camera at 5 months old. Can you say diva??

It's been a great, busy, happy, stressful, wonderful past four months and I promise not to go so long until I blog again. Pinky swear!